Not a fuckboy, actually has a life, isn't playin.

Compliments your looks but supports your goals.
"Hey Chloe, are you talking to anyone right now?"

"Oh, yea, turns out I am, he's an actual dude,"
by Heavenlybeing February 29, 2020
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Generally used to imply shock that the previous person has posted something either outrageously distasteful or outrageously off topic.
Someone: "I'm glad something bad happened"
Me: "What the actual fuck, dude"
by NoNoNoNoNoNoHellNo December 24, 2019
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