When a girl is used only for a guys sexual pleasures.. And it usually ends with the guy slapping his cock on her face.

Kara: Are you and Jake going out yet?
Kelsey: No, I was used and abused!
by Pham Phamily March 30, 2008
To use a person for sex who believes the sex implies a relationship and affection, while never intending to pursue anything past getting sex. AKA "love them and leave them."
From the Rick James' song, Fire And Desire:

Love them and leave them
That's what I used to do
Use and abuse them...
I wasn't very nice, you know
by PecanMax July 22, 2021
when someone places love trust and guidance into good people who turn out to be not so good
Its a shame that he was used and abused, hes one of them who gives their all in all aspects
by janruan August 21, 2022
When you ask tone “what are we” and he says “we’ll see where this goes” then you ask how he would respond to a fuck buddy he doesn’t see a future with and he says “well see where this goes”
Hey tone you tell me you love me but don’t make me your girl so what are we? He responds with “we well see where this goes” .. now I feel used and abused
by Hurtbae August 2, 2020
Use and abuse is when you meet up with a girl and spend "quality" time together.
The point of Use and Abuse is that you dont tell your mates about her
Use&Abuse:
They were a use and abuse
Were they a use and abuse?
I am going to use and abuse
Reece let's find a use and abuse for me
by Chinky Bimmy BRAY January 20, 2020
A.K.A. U&A, to use girls and abuse your rights.
"Oh, man I U&A'ed so many girls last summer!"
or
"I gotta get back to a Use & Abuse lifestyle."
by T Bonee November 1, 2006
Use and abuse is when you meet up with a girl and spend "quality" time together.
The point of Use and Abuse is that you dont tell your mates about her. The origin of the concept was created by a legend called Reece Cheevers. We dont know who he is it's an Urban Myth
Use&Abuse:
They were a use and abuse
Were they a use and abuse?
I am going to use and abuse
Reece let's find a use and abuse for me
Did you use and abuse ella.
by Chinky Bimmy BRAY September 26, 2020