1 definition by PecanMax

To use a person for sex who believes the sex implies a relationship and affection, while never intending to pursue anything past getting sex. AKA "love them and leave them."
From the Rick James' song, Fire And Desire:

Love them and leave them
That's what I used to do
Use and abuse them...
I wasn't very nice, you know
by PecanMax July 22, 2021
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