To have the big gay is to be a lame. Very rarely is it about actually being gay.
1. Jalen doesn't doesn't pass in basketball, he has the big gay.
2. Solace beat his meat to Natie's cheeks, he has the big gay.
by leedantheduffyman March 16, 2018
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A man who has kissed multiple men in a day or a women who has kissed multiple women in a day

Can also be used as a joke
by The Big Gay Guy November 21, 2018
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The Big Gay is a quality a person has because they have it. If you don't know what it means you too have The Big Gay
Joey : "Hey Eli did you remember the sauce."
Eli : "Sorry I forgot it"

Joey : "God you have The Big Gay"
Eli : " whats that :
Joey : " If you don't know you've got the Bigger Gay"
by Yeetnut_N_ jelly August 22, 2018
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