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Reffy, as in "Reference", someone whose fandom surrounds other fandoms rather than the topic itself. Someone who is able to recognize popculture references of a certain fandom, participate in the conversation, and shares in a topical fascination. Somewhat of an anthropologist/sociologist of cult classics, being more interested in the phenomena of people's response to a work more than the work itself. A Reffy need not actually have been directly exposed to the movie/book/etc at hand- as they are more interested in how people have been moved by and come together over a common interest. Reffy is not a insult for less educated fans, but a specific word for those who are more interested in geeking out on how other people geek out. Some Reffy's may even prefer not to indulge in the movie themselves, so that they remain neutral in appreciating fan perspectives of all angles.
"OMG do you see how epic this Tardis dress is?!"
"Thats so cool that you like Dr.Who too!- It's my life!"
"Thanks, but I'm more of a Reffy- I love the cosplay, cons, memes, inside jokes, conspiracy theories, and artistry/execution but I'm not really into the show."

"Have you read the latest Harry Potter book? Sooo good!"
"No, but I know Snap kills Dumbledore; Harry is one of Voldemort's horcruxes; and the kids grow up and send their kids off to the train. So, Reffy stuff- what's your take on it all? I'd love to hear! Tell me all about it!"
Reffy by Schrodinger's Mom December 12, 2015
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Phonetic shortening for the word "Reference"
Person A: *Makes obscure reference*

Person B: "I caught that reffy."
Reffy by Lavalugbumlord April 4, 2026
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In Veneto (Italian region) we put this verb in a large amount of sentences, with different meanings and syntax.
It usually refers to something you managed to accomplish, but it can be used to indicate something you found or, generally, to the ability of someone to be an efficient person.
Oh fioi ho reffato gli appunti per l'esame.
(Ehi guys, I succeded in getting the notes for the exam.)

Ma ti reffi?
(Can you do it?)

Non mi reffo un cazzo.
(I don't understand/I'm not able to do it.)

Reffarsi la mattina è sempre un problema.
(To be lucid in the morning is always a problem.)
reffarsi by Marialaida February 28, 2013
Raffy Raffy Raffy.
this is a type of person who always knows what to say and how to say it. never does anything to offend you and is loved very much. even if you have only met this person one twice you still know this person will be there forever ever ever.
also really enjoy fun flirting and jokes :D
'' awh man i know she is such a raffy''
Raffy by niallgalaxy February 21, 2010
a cigarette that's been put out and then relit later; a recycled cigarette.
no, i don't got any smokes. i've got this refry tho.
refry by alissenn mannssenn January 8, 2005

Wettin' your whistle before reffing the big game 

Doing a little predrinking before arriving to a larger social event.
it's cool, just wettin' your whistle before reffing the big game.
1. when someone has been satisfied with sexual pleasure and fantasy
2. when all your dreams come true
I got Raffied.
All my life I've waited for Raffy.
Raffy by Smitten122208 February 25, 2009
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