BBS acronym for "Ren Pin Wen Ti", which is Chinese, roughly meaning "get over it, it's not your fault, maybe it's because your moral quality is not good." This can be always used to explain the different outcomes of two same tings done by different people. Of course it's just for fun
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.