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An affectionate term for a friend who has made an error. The combination of queer and bender evokes the notion of homosexuality, but the two words merged create a double negative and therefore produce a heterosexual outcome.
I can't believe you knocked your drink over, you quender.
Quender by loufoo October 16, 2009
A cross between a queer and a bender
Dean you are a quender
quender by James Brickman July 9, 2006
This is a combination between a Queer and a Bender.
A queer/bender refers to a homosexual.
(Bender not to be associated with the cartoon from Futurama)
Guy1:This bloke keeps trying to chat me up, it's really irritating.
Guy 2: Yeah, I wish there were a word to describe what an absolute Queer slash Bender he is.
Guy1:FUCKING HELL he's a Quender!
Guy2:Yes...yes he is.
Quender by Archaon Darkheart December 7, 2011
An amalgamation of the words "queer" and "bender" this word appertains to Homosexuality. Originated in Stoke on Trent at the turn of the Millennium. BIG TARM!!!!!

I like a drink I do.....
"Look at 'im there - what a quender, shall we do him?"

"I do fancy it!"

"Big Tarm!"
Quender by Stoke City QB's August 31, 2006

Quender bender 

A Quender bender is slang for someone that is bisexual or pan sexual. They are sexually fluid hence quender meaning queer and bender because they bend either way.
"Sarah is such a Quender bender, she was with Steve last night and now she's taken Natalie home"
Quender bender by Ms Monk December 19, 2016

Quondering 

the art of successfully roaming the hallways at work rather than doing any real work.
Ray was quondering so much today that he got nothing accomplished.
Quondering by Mr Hottness August 5, 2011