Definition: (phrase)
A brutal way of saying someone hasn’t just made a mistake; they’ve taken a situation, set it on fire, thrown it off a cliff, and then acted surprised when it exploded. Used when the failure is so obvious, reckless, or dumb that no fixing it is even worth trying.
Not casual. This is reserved for moments when someone’s failure is so massive and self-inflicted that it almost becomes art. It's got that slow-burn of disappointment baked into it. First you sigh, then you say it. Related to "you done fucked up," but "gone and done" adds that extra salt; like you watched them build their own disaster in slow motion.
A brutal way of saying someone hasn’t just made a mistake; they’ve taken a situation, set it on fire, thrown it off a cliff, and then acted surprised when it exploded. Used when the failure is so obvious, reckless, or dumb that no fixing it is even worth trying.
Not casual. This is reserved for moments when someone’s failure is so massive and self-inflicted that it almost becomes art. It's got that slow-burn of disappointment baked into it. First you sigh, then you say it. Related to "you done fucked up," but "gone and done" adds that extra salt; like you watched them build their own disaster in slow motion.
Example:
"Gave Chad the aux cord and now we're listening to 12 minutes of dolphin noises. You've gone and done fucked it up."
"She hit 'reply all' with that email dragging the boss. You've gone and done fucked it."
"Gave Chad the aux cord and now we're listening to 12 minutes of dolphin noises. You've gone and done fucked it up."
"She hit 'reply all' with that email dragging the boss. You've gone and done fucked it."
by Moss_Piglet April 22, 2025

by Emilyteeheee July 9, 2019

from the show Parks & Recreation when Tom Havorford's ex wife, Wendy, goes back to Canada in season 3.
means that you have no chance of getting with someone.
means that you have no chance of getting with someone.
by PhilMcCrackin12345678 March 17, 2011

by Debskelly1985 March 25, 2023

Referring to Kanye's harassment of Pete Davidson and ex-wife, Kim Kardashian, this phrase describes someone's abusive language and behavior (usually portrayed on social media) that has gone completely off, due to unchecked mental illness, extreme narcissism, delusions of grandeur, and/or an overinflated sense of 'self.' This behavior, though soundly condemned by others, is allowed to continue, sometimes without consequences, due to the perpetrator's position of fame/status/power.
Did you see Will Smith get up and slap Chris Rock at the Academy Awards? Man, he went full 'Gone Ye' and then got the 'Best Actor Award' and a standing ovation!
by Steven Herraiz March 30, 2022
