An insult aimed at any woman that doesn't mindlessly follow feminist dogma. It can also be used by feminists as a generic insult towards any woman they don't personally like, regardless of the political ideology of the woman being insulted. It is similar to "incel" or "nazi" by which it's meant to undermine any counter made to progressive rhetoric by labelling the critic something negative instead of actually engaging with the argument in good faith.
Ironically, the term "pick me" can be inadvertently sexist, as depending on the context, it implies the only reason a woman would be critical of feminism is for male attention, completely ignoring any other potential personal experiences and philosophies that may influence the woman's opinion.
Ironically, the term "pick me" can be inadvertently sexist, as depending on the context, it implies the only reason a woman would be critical of feminism is for male attention, completely ignoring any other potential personal experiences and philosophies that may influence the woman's opinion.
Eg. 1:
A: "Men are actually statistically more likely to be attacked more often than women when walking alone at night. They're also more likely to be homeless, fall behind in education, and die in workplace related accidents."
B: "Found the pick me girl lol.
Eg. 2:
A: "Personally, I don't support abortion due to my own negative experiences with it and my own religious philosophy."
B: "You're such a pick me!! you only want attention from men!!"
A: "Men are actually statistically more likely to be attacked more often than women when walking alone at night. They're also more likely to be homeless, fall behind in education, and die in workplace related accidents."
B: "Found the pick me girl lol.
Eg. 2:
A: "Personally, I don't support abortion due to my own negative experiences with it and my own religious philosophy."
B: "You're such a pick me!! you only want attention from men!!"
by mel999 April 5, 2023
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Pick-Me Girl: "Ohhh, so Tom didn't call me all of last week and didn't pick up of any of my calls, but it's okay because I've been texting him all week and I hope he'll answer at least one of my texts! And screw Janine, she's so mean to guys; I'm a cool girl and I think Tom is cool even though he won't return any of my calls or texts. I want Tom sooooo bad.."
Ironically, men view Pick-Mes as the Motel 6-tier of women - they are cheap, easy, and convenient to access, but the man would never show them off to his family and friends. And he is always looking for something better, because he thinks that he thinks that he can do better than a Motel-6 PickMe. Why settle for Motel 6 when you can get a better, more sought-after woman who is Ritz Carlton-tier?
Ironically, men view Pick-Mes as the Motel 6-tier of women - they are cheap, easy, and convenient to access, but the man would never show them off to his family and friends. And he is always looking for something better, because he thinks that he thinks that he can do better than a Motel-6 PickMe. Why settle for Motel 6 when you can get a better, more sought-after woman who is Ritz Carlton-tier?
by ladeeedaaa April 12, 2022
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Pick me girl: OMG! I’m so tiny🥺 Look Jack- Hold your hand out next to mine!
Jack: ok…
Pick me girl: Omg! Jack your hands are so Big! I’m so tiny! :3
Jack:ok…
Jack: ok…
Pick me girl: Omg! Jack your hands are so Big! I’m so tiny! :3
Jack:ok…
by KakashiHatakesWife January 25, 2022
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(I figured of yall needed the REAL definition since I've seen it been on ever girl that is even slightly attractive.)
(I figured of yall needed the REAL definition since I've seen it been on ever girl that is even slightly attractive.)
"I'm like one of the guys so I don't have that many girl friends"
"I don't like wearing makeup because it's fake and I don't like being fake unlike most girls." - Said every Pick-Me Girl ever.
"I don't like wearing makeup because it's fake and I don't like being fake unlike most girls." - Said every Pick-Me Girl ever.
by luciaglossie May 3, 2022
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'Im not a pick me.' 'IM NOT RUNNING!' 'THOSE COST MONEY!!' 'OMG HES SO IN LOVE W ME' 'IM TAKING MY HAIR OUT.' 'IM NOT RUNNING !!!!!!'
'Im not a pick me.' 'IM NOT RUNNING!' 'THOSE COST MONEY!!' 'OMG HES SO IN LOVE W ME' 'IM TAKING MY HAIR OUT.' 'IM NOT RUNNING !!!!!!'
by ur mummies honkers August 18, 2022
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A Pick Me Girl feels no need to self-sabotage when blessings come her way. She is full of gratitude. She sees the excitement and beauty in each situation in life. And is not afraid to be selfish for such exciting and beautiful things.
Childlike, bold, go-getting, and full of self-love, she gleefully squeals “Pick me! Pick me! Pick me!” Over and over again
That is why she is called a Pick Me Girl
A Pick Me Girl feels no need to self-sabotage when blessings come her way. She is full of gratitude. She sees the excitement and beauty in each situation in life. And is not afraid to be selfish for such exciting and beautiful things.
Childlike, bold, go-getting, and full of self-love, she gleefully squeals “Pick me! Pick me! Pick me!” Over and over again
That is why she is called a Pick Me Girl
July 31 - It is Maria’s 5th birthday party. Her and her 5 friends are sitting on the living room carpet - Maria, Stephanie, Alyssa, Doug, Jack, Lindsey.
Maria’s mother ties a pastel blue balloon animal in the shape of a dog.
Maria’s mother: “Who wants this one—-?”
Stephanie: “Pick meeeeeEEEEEEE!!!!!”
Maria’s mother: “oh Stephanie! You are such a Pick Me girl!”
Example 2:
Karina: “Hey Julie, I have my first client as a Psychedelic Guide on Tuesday. I’m feeling imposter syndrome”
Julie: “it’s normal to feel this way. Just remember the phrase Pick Me Girl.”
Karina: “Oh yeah!!!”
Maria’s mother ties a pastel blue balloon animal in the shape of a dog.
Maria’s mother: “Who wants this one—-?”
Stephanie: “Pick meeeeeEEEEEEE!!!!!”
Maria’s mother: “oh Stephanie! You are such a Pick Me girl!”
Example 2:
Karina: “Hey Julie, I have my first client as a Psychedelic Guide on Tuesday. I’m feeling imposter syndrome”
Julie: “it’s normal to feel this way. Just remember the phrase Pick Me Girl.”
Karina: “Oh yeah!!!”
by Steph-Steph December 26, 2022
Get the Pick Me Girl mug.An insult used against women who take the man's side in any argument between a man and a woman. A pick me girl is a woman who doesn't automatically take the woman's side in a debate, instead looking at the evidence and morality of the issue, and who doesn't think that someone is always right just because they are a woman, two things that the people who use this insult hate.
Woman A) She was so right to cheat on him! Women shouldn't be limited by men.
Woman B) It's wrong to cheat on a man. How would you feel if a man cheated on you?
Woman A) OMG! You are such a pick me girl!
Woman B) It's wrong to cheat on a man. How would you feel if a man cheated on you?
Woman A) OMG! You are such a pick me girl!
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