The phrase “bop” in this sense is New York-based slang that came out of Black and brown queer communities, especially from the ballroom scene, the hood girlies, and NYC’s underground culture.
• The word “bop” originally meant like a lil’ walk, a lil’ strut — something with sauce. Like “that girl got a bop when she walk.”
• Over time, it morphed into meaning your style, pattern, routine, way of being — especially among gay men, fem boys, and trans girls in NYC. It became a quick, flexible word to describe vibe+reputation+routine all in one.
Think Harlem, Bronx, and Brooklyn. Think girls who walk into a room and don’t have to explain themselves. You just know their bop.
“Bop” refers to someone’s vibe, energy, style, or behavioral pattern.
It’s how someone moves, acts, or carries themselves — their aura. It’s like saying “You know how I do.” or “That’s how I move.”
• The word “bop” originally meant like a lil’ walk, a lil’ strut — something with sauce. Like “that girl got a bop when she walk.”
• Over time, it morphed into meaning your style, pattern, routine, way of being — especially among gay men, fem boys, and trans girls in NYC. It became a quick, flexible word to describe vibe+reputation+routine all in one.
Think Harlem, Bronx, and Brooklyn. Think girls who walk into a room and don’t have to explain themselves. You just know their bop.
“Bop” refers to someone’s vibe, energy, style, or behavioral pattern.
It’s how someone moves, acts, or carries themselves — their aura. It’s like saying “You know how I do.” or “That’s how I move.”
Common Phrases:
• “You know my bop.”
→ You know how I am / You know how I move / You know the type of time I’m on.
• “I don’t know your bop.”
→ I don’t really know you like that / I don’t know how you move / I don’t trust your vibe yet.
• “That’s not my bop.”
→ That’s not my style / That’s not how I operate / I don’t move like that.
• “I peeped her bop.”
→ I clocked how she moves / I figured out her vibe.
How It’s Used (Examples You Can Steal):
1. When you know your routine is always the same:
“I’m not tryna stay long, you know my bop — I slide in and dip quiet.”
2. When someone is acting brand new:
“Don’t act like you don’t know my bop, I don’t chase no dude.”
3. When you peep someone’s energy:
“Mm… I don’t know her bop, she give me sneaky.”
4. When you decline something that ain’t your vibe:
“Going to that messy ass function? Yeah, that’s not my bop.”
When should YOU use it?
Use it when you’re trying to express:
• Confidence in how you move: “You know my bop.”
• Suspicion about someone’s actions: “I don’t know his bop.”
• Setting a boundary: “That’s not even my bop. I don’t argue online.”
• Explaining yourself without explaining yourself: “It’s just my bop.”
• “You know my bop.”
→ You know how I am / You know how I move / You know the type of time I’m on.
• “I don’t know your bop.”
→ I don’t really know you like that / I don’t know how you move / I don’t trust your vibe yet.
• “That’s not my bop.”
→ That’s not my style / That’s not how I operate / I don’t move like that.
• “I peeped her bop.”
→ I clocked how she moves / I figured out her vibe.
How It’s Used (Examples You Can Steal):
1. When you know your routine is always the same:
“I’m not tryna stay long, you know my bop — I slide in and dip quiet.”
2. When someone is acting brand new:
“Don’t act like you don’t know my bop, I don’t chase no dude.”
3. When you peep someone’s energy:
“Mm… I don’t know her bop, she give me sneaky.”
4. When you decline something that ain’t your vibe:
“Going to that messy ass function? Yeah, that’s not my bop.”
When should YOU use it?
Use it when you’re trying to express:
• Confidence in how you move: “You know my bop.”
• Suspicion about someone’s actions: “I don’t know his bop.”
• Setting a boundary: “That’s not even my bop. I don’t argue online.”
• Explaining yourself without explaining yourself: “It’s just my bop.”
by Fishymotherdiva June 22, 2025

A point of reference in a "Game". Where he answer can't be one of the same .. When player 1 answers if they "know" "no" or "don't know".
by Mr. Chris September 5, 2023

you have a deeper understanding who this person is deep down. You know all their flaws and all their perfections. Everything they embody.
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by TheCallMe January 24, 2022

A phrase used to let someone know their opinion is garbage.
Also a phrase that apparently REALLY got under some guys skin on Instagram.
Also a phrase that apparently REALLY got under some guys skin on Instagram.
by ohword? July 14, 2024

A good enough response to the sixth or seventh time somebody has asked you if you know what they are saying, as smart ass as it might seem.
After about the sixth or seventh time somebody has asked you if you know what they are saying, it's not a bad idea to ask them you know what you're saying? before they turn you both into one of those guys, especially if that isn't you.
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