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Date Shanghai

A date shanghai is when a person unwittingly goes on a date...whether the person wants to date the other person or not.

'To shanghai' is a term derived from the 1850s when sailing crews were abducted. It is a verb that has expanded to mean to kidnap.

A date shanghai is essentially a surprise (unwanted) date.
"On my last night in town he date shanghaied me! I first realized it was a date, not after the movie in his room or the whiskey shots, but when we were walking to a jazz club. When I invited some people to join us, his face fell a bit. (they didn't join us, so we spent the evening together).
by GarageSaleFTW July 4, 2010
mugGet the Date Shanghaimug.

Janine date

A date in which the mother tags along but it is okay because she ends up paying for everything.
Yea bro her and her mom picked me up and we went out to see a show. It was a total Janine date but I didn't have to spend anything so it's all good.
by Chuckbad April 19, 2017
mugGet the Janine datemug.

Clam Date

The female version of a man date. Two straight women out on the town.
"I have a clam date with one of my good friends tonight."
by healthbledger November 21, 2011
mugGet the Clam Datemug.

Date ladder

When you date a semi-beautiful person, which causes a slightly more semi-beautiful person to take interest in wanting to date you, until you are a sweet 6 with a perfect 10, and make people ask how you landed him/her.
She could be a good date ladder for you and get that other girl to ask herself what is she missing by not dating you.
by WordsofWisdomFrom December 8, 2021
mugGet the Date laddermug.

Softcore dating

When your friend calls and plays secretly with a girl he met online in a game but refuses to admit they are dating/want to date them.
Oh, He is softcore dating someone he met yesterday in that quickmatch again?
by sebik604 August 15, 2023
mugGet the Softcore datingmug.

Dry Date

a date in which you do not get any action at the end of
(guy 1) - How did the date go?
(guy 2) - Oh it ended up being a dry date.
(guy 1) - Ahh, shitty deal.
by Shannon_Cannon March 29, 2010
mugGet the Dry Datemug.

date or mate

Date or mate is a Instagram story disease that is widely spread throughout 11 to 14 year old desparates.
by mate your small October 21, 2019
mugGet the date or matemug.

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