Girl code as conventionally known related to not
dating your girl friend’s exes. This
definition is not only
shallow but also likely coined by high school girls if at all coined by women.
The real girl code refers to staying female identified.
Empathizing with women first and foremost with the exceptions
As of today, women are shamed by not only men but also by fellow womenfolk for not subscribing to “norms”. Whether said norms are misguided or not.
Examples of staying on code: girl code
Do not join hands with men to tear women down.
Do not sit up with men who are dragging women.
Mothers treat dote on your daughters more. Your (
precious) son will not/cannot play on your team. He will join the team that he identifies with; men.
Do
better with your daughter-in-laws, as fellow women were better off as allies than rivals over who’s the first priority in ‘your sons’ life.
Let men defend themselves against other men. Do not get involved in male rivalry.
Protect other women, women are stronger in numbers.
Call the
police every time. On your sons, fathers, uncles, male cousins, anyone who attempts to/ does you harm. Spare another woman/person the chance of being harmed because you didn’t call the cops when you should’ve.
No excuses for misogyny.
Learn the
definition of misogyny and
stop using the term so loosely.