Someone who's guts you hate allconsumingly and bitterly but with which you also have highly fascinating and fulfilling conversations with.
I first used this term on aim to describe my frienemy zaque something like a year ago, well before any of you touched the word, and i see that it's now slipped into common usage, yet, none of you got it it right. I also see, due to wikipedia, that I probably picked up the term from some policital stuff i was into, and the term is not my invention, but merely, I was the only that made the term popular.
by Daeros October 9, 2008

Caitlin keeps asking for my lunch money and says that friends share. She is using me. She is a frienemy.
by chicadee6jen June 11, 2008

A frienemy is an enemy of yours that can also be friendly, but nonetheless, you hate them. They are also friends that are so nice and friendly, they annoy you to the point that you hate them, and they are your enemy.
by Nick. May 30, 2008

Someone who's your best friend but your enemy at the same time
or your best friend that you somehow hate at the same time
or your best friend that you somehow hate at the same time
by Satanic Egg April 5, 2019

your girlfriends best friend who hates you and you hate as well, or vise versa. anyone who agrees to act somewhat respectfull to a person as they do the same with the understanding that they both hate eachother
girlfriends best friend: i hate you
boyfriend: i hate you too bitch
girlfriends best friend: let's be frienemys
boyfriend: ok
boyfriend: i hate you too bitch
girlfriends best friend: let's be frienemys
boyfriend: ok
by satan beef April 3, 2010

by No. 18's friend Gri... December 2, 2002

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