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Xenogender

a gender that is mostly associated with animals, aesthetics, and feelings, but can be other things too!
Common Xenogenders are catgender, pupgender, bungender, sweetgender, and faegender. Most Xenogender users use neopronouns that correlate with their gender, such as kit/kitself/pup/pupself/bun/bunself/sweet/sweetself/fae/faeself/ Xenogenders are totally valid and help neurodivergent people understand what they identify as! Xenogenders that identify with animals do not mean that if you identify with them you identify as a cat, though this is a common misconception.
person 1: I identify as beegender and fluffcoric!!!
person 2: wha- whats that?

person 1: They are xenogenders, they are what i identify as!
person 2: doesn't that stupid meowbahh brat identify as catgender??? don't tell me you like meowbahh
person 1: NO OF COURSE NOT!!! meowbahh is not really part of the lgbtqia+ community, its some guy pretending to be catgender and starting discourse over things
person 2: well- its only man, woman, and nonbinary spec!!
person 1: yeah! xenogenders are nonbinary spec, because they aren't man or woman!
person 2: oh! you are very valid, i understand now :)
person 1: thanks! we face lots of transphobia and exclusion in the lgbtquia+ community, so thats very kind :3
by Buggiezzz:) May 23, 2022
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The term 'xenogender' was coined on tumblr, and evolved from a joke attempting to mock the trans community, into a community of teens creating "genders" and fitting pronouns out of interests, characteristics or likes and dislikes.
This is extremely hurtful to the trans community, as it can lead to the trans community being taken less seriously and therefore trans healthcare being harder to access for trans individuals.
Xenogenders are actively harming the trans community.
by tr33* December 29, 2022
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Hello, my name is Chaos, I am the founder of an anti-MAP and anti-zoo organization. I am here to clear up one small thing on Xenogenders as a Xeno user.
Regardless on what one user in particular said, Xenos are not used as MAP, Zoo, or Groomer dogwistles.
Xenogenders are genders created by Autistic Trans people (like myself) that represent how their gender feels to them, as many Autistic people do not feel gender the same way Allistic people do.
For example:
Catgender does not mean you identify as a cat; rather, your gender itself feels small, mysterious, fluffy, and sharp on occasion. Meowbahh is actually a young animator that had a platform of around 1K people before dropping off around 2015, meow doesn’t actually identify as Catgender but meow is a more mainstream example of the misuse of xenogenders.
My bf: Look at all of these xenogenders! I identify closely with all of them.
Me: That’s amazing, dear! What’s that xenogender?
My bf: Huskygender! It means my gender is energetic and loud at times, always warm.
by ThePseudoWord October 14, 2022
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A form of self expression often used by neruodivergent people.

Xenogenders are ways to describe ones gender.

Ask someone how they'd describe their gender and you'll probably get stuff like "blue" or "tough" (masculine stuff for guys usually).
I use Xenogenders! I use catgender and beegender!
by KeyTheKey October 14, 2020
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An identity often made and used by Neurodivergent people to help explain a unique relation to their gender or hyperfixation.
Person A: Xenogenders are incredibly valid identities and cool!
Person B: Absolutely!!
by anonymous October 14, 2020
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A gender that is completely out of the gender binary and is only for people who are neuro divergent. These genders can be anything and are usually connected to certain things like animals, food, characters etc.
Hey, I use xenogenders!”
by Astridzurban August 26, 2022
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A gender label made up by allistic (non-autistic) and neurotypical people on Tumblr who believe gender is a feeling, and therefore can be anything you want it to be. A “xenogender” is said to be any gender identity that falls outside of the concept of male, female, or neutral. The “xenogender” ideology is blatantly ignorant of all the decades worth of studies that prove that gender is neurological and not fake or constructed. It’s also commonly said that Xenogenders help autistic people express themselves, but zero studies show that “Xenogenders” are beneficial to individuals on the autism spectrum.

People who identify with made up Xenogenders usually call themselves trans and non-binary as well, when in reality, you are born trans as well as non-binary. Xenogender ideology insists it is a choice.
A: “I identify as catgender, which is my xenogender because I like cats”

B: “Interests and gender are two different things. Cats don’t do anything to describe gender.”
by CincoatTheRaincoat44 June 29, 2022
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