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Coined by Dan Savage on the Episode.900 of the Savage Lovecast: Someone who puts up with their spouse having affairs — someone who tolerates a little cheating — but doesn't want to open the marriage officially isn't polyamorous. They're tolyamorous.
"Cameron cheats on Phoebe once in a while and he thinks he's fooling her but — lucky for Cam — Phoebe is tolyamorous."
by Molly Muchargasse January 23, 2024
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by HiKoality February 6, 2024
Get the tolyamory mug.Coined by Dan Savage. “Tolerating polyamory”. To be in a polyamorous relationship but only tolerating it. Not to be confused with “poly under duress” or PUD.
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Get the tolyamorous mug.A relationship style or mindset where a person is tolerant of polyamory but does not necessarily participate in it themselves. Someone who practices tolyamory may support or accept a partner having multiple romantic or intimate relationships while personally remaining monogamous or emotionally exclusive.
“I’m not poly, but I’m okay with my partner dating other people — I guess you could call that tolyamory.”
“They have a tolyamorous relationship; she’s supportive of his other partners but prefers to stay monogamous herself.”
tolyamorous (adjective): “He identifies as tolyamorous.”
tolyamorist (noun): “She’s a tolyamorist who prefers one-on-one emotional bonds.”
“They have a tolyamorous relationship; she’s supportive of his other partners but prefers to stay monogamous herself.”
tolyamorous (adjective): “He identifies as tolyamorous.”
tolyamorist (noun): “She’s a tolyamorist who prefers one-on-one emotional bonds.”
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