self-worth

Something that when outsourced to surrounding people (e.g., parents), will cause you to thirst for validation.

When she realized her self-worth was entirely based on her parents' approval for every action she wants to do, she knew she needed to find her own sense of value.

by Emotional Cruiser September 20, 2025

self-humilitive

To put themselves down/to make fun of their self.

Dave is always self-humilitive, always making fun of himself and trying to make others laugh at him.

by Fixer-JR May 28, 2023

self-deficating humor

When you laugh so hard you shit yourself.

John's self-deficating humor was so potent he cleared the room.

by Skidmarkers March 30, 2016

Self-downer

A person who doesn’t care about themselves, but cares about other people

Boy 1: Woah did you see someone tripped Susie and all she did was ask if the boy was okay

Boy 2: Yeah what a self-downer

by Amual January 24, 2018

Self defensed

Verb. The action of a white man killing a minority with no repercussions by claiming self defense. (Kyle Rittenhouse)

Person 1: I’m going to the BLM protest later today.
Person 2: I hope you don’t get self defensed.

by nefariousone November 23, 2021

Low Self-Esteem

A negative view of oneself, characterized by feelings of, unworthiness, negative self-talk lack of self-worth, lack of confidence.

There was some guy with low self-esteem who looked pretty sad while eating food

by UphillMaco September 4, 2025

Un Pat Your Self

Literally the opposite of giving yourself a pat on the back a.k.a. reverse order a.k.a. go fuck yourself mainly a.k.a. get the fuck out of here with a stereotypical Italian accent

Un Pat Your Self on the back and fling your arm away like you are swatting with a pimp slap while saying get the f out of here

by Dr.Yokomo Ohoyo September 26, 2025