A cat which frequents your house for food and occasional petting but no true relationship is involved.
I got a new cat, it doesn't sleep in my house and I don't have to clean after it. It just comes ones in a while for food and petting, it's my cat with benefits
by JewDoc June 21, 2010

When two friends want to flirt, touch, hug, and mess around or more without having to commit or wonder if they are dating.
Me and Kris are "friends with benefits" and now we can flirt and be all over each other without having to date.
by EMM.D. September 7, 2009

by the m. April 20, 2013

a person who one fucks on the side when not involved in a serious relationship. NOT to be confused with a boyfriend or girfriend, to whom (gasp!) commitment would be involved.
My friend with benefits constantly tells me about how he is still in love with his ex-girlfriend...what a sonofabitch.
by je suis, tu n'est pas August 9, 2003

Girl: "I just wanna be...friends with benefits," usually means: "Yeah, you're cool but...I don't really wanna be seen with you. Sorry."
Guy: "I just wanna be...friends with benefits," usually means: "Yeah, I just wanna get in your pants without having to do anything for you."
Guy: "I just wanna be...friends with benefits," usually means: "Yeah, I just wanna get in your pants without having to do anything for you."
by taaash September 14, 2008

a guy who is a girls friend. they aren't dating but they can have sex. the only time you can have sex with two people without considering it cheating.
woman:wanna be my friend with benefits.
man:whats that?
woman:we have sex but we're not dating.
man:sweet!!!!
man:whats that?
woman:we have sex but we're not dating.
man:sweet!!!!
by mowcow1233243 August 5, 2008

by chrisstagg88 July 2, 2006
