This is the ambivalent cousin of slut shaming. Slut pitying occurs when people assume that a slut is only a slut because of insecurity, conforming to sexist standards, daddy issues, and the like. Slut pity assumes that a slut isn't a slut out of personal choice, personal discovery, or self-empowerment. Slut pity is generally a knee-jerk reaction and often comes from good intentions, though sometimes not.
Person 1: Trisha sleeps around a lot, she must be insecure.
Person 2: That's slut pity, which is quite judgmental. Maybe she just likes having a good time and is totally fine with herself.
Person 2: That's slut pity, which is quite judgmental. Maybe she just likes having a good time and is totally fine with herself.
by shannaro-bumblebee April 25, 2017
Get the slut pitymug. when a guy sends you dick pics/hooks up with you and tells his friends he only talks to you because he feels bad for you and never did that
by kjlhgasdf October 22, 2018
Get the Pity Dickedmug. Did my inviation disappear
Why'd i put my heart on every cursive letter
Tell me why the hell no one is here
Tell me what to do to make it all feel better
Maybe it's a cruel joke on me , whatever
Just means there's way more cake for me , forever
It's my party and i'll cry if i want to cry if i want to cry cry cry
I'll cry until the candles burn down this place
I'll cry until my pity party's in flames
Why'd i put my heart on every cursive letter
Tell me why the hell no one is here
Tell me what to do to make it all feel better
Maybe it's a cruel joke on me , whatever
Just means there's way more cake for me , forever
It's my party and i'll cry if i want to cry if i want to cry cry cry
I'll cry until the candles burn down this place
I'll cry until my pity party's in flames
Me : PITY PARTYY
by Xenogenisis February 23, 2020
Get the Pity partymug. A metaphorical pie (it can be real) given to someone for something pitiful. It is a condescending and harsh item that is generally given out by the slice.
The term has gained noted popularity, especially at http://www.pitypie.com
The term has gained noted popularity, especially at http://www.pitypie.com
"For staying in a Saturday night to read Twilight instead of partying with friends, I give Claudia 3 piece of Pity Pie."
by lucas27 April 5, 2009
Get the Pity Piemug. An occurance in which someone will complain about their lives and/or something bad that happened to them, only to be topped by someone else who is trying to sound more worse off to obtain attention. If it is a true pity fest, THIS person will also become out-pitied by someone with an even worse thing that happened to them. This goes on until finally someone has the most pitiful story and everyone feels bad for them, which is what they really wanted.
Pitiful person#1: I'm having such a shitty day, my boyfriend broke my heart into a thousand million peices and I failed my math test.
pitiful person#2: Yeah, that sucks I guess, my kitten got ran over right in front of me today, PLUS my dad totally said he hates me.
Pitiful person#3: Well MY dad won't let me eat and says I'm dead to him and my kitten ate my girlfriend right as she dumped me and then it died on a heart attack, fell on me, and broke my leg.
Pitiful People1 and 2: Awww, you poor thing!
Normal Person: all this pity fest needs is a merry-go-round made of tears.
pitiful person#2: Yeah, that sucks I guess, my kitten got ran over right in front of me today, PLUS my dad totally said he hates me.
Pitiful person#3: Well MY dad won't let me eat and says I'm dead to him and my kitten ate my girlfriend right as she dumped me and then it died on a heart attack, fell on me, and broke my leg.
Pitiful People1 and 2: Awww, you poor thing!
Normal Person: all this pity fest needs is a merry-go-round made of tears.
by Spicy Mao April 20, 2009
Get the Pity Festmug. by Morgan A August 5, 2005
Get the pity sexmug. A hot yet kindhearted guy/girl who genuinely acts interested in the least attractive people in the room to make them feel better.
by Neesied69 September 20, 2011
Get the Pity Flirtmug.