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Bi Lesbian 

1. A bisexual or biromantic person with a female or feminine gender identity who is attracted to people with female or feminine gender identities and nonbinary people.
2. A bisexual person with a female or feminine gender identity who is homoromantic.
3. A biromantic person with a female or feminine gender identity who is homosexual.
4. A bisexual or biromantic person with a female or feminine gender identity who has a heavy female leaning.
5. A double-binary or intersex person who is attracted to people with female or feminine gender identities.

The equivalent for male/masculine people being attracted to male/masculine gender identities is "bi gay".
People who say that bi lesbians don't exist don't know what the term means.
Bi Lesbian by Shugunou January 26, 2023
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Bi Lesbian 

An oxymoronic label some people are insistent on using that invalidates both the bisexual and lesbian communities. If someone experiences any sort of attraction to men they are NOT a lesbian. If someone is bisexual with a preference for women they are a bisexual with a preference. Stop being afraid of calling yourself bisexual and insisting on clinging to labels that don't apply to you.
Girl 1: Yeah, I'm a bi lesbian! I'm romantically attracted to women and sexually attracted to men and women!
Girl 2: Girlie please be fr, you can't be calling yourself a lesbian if you're attracted to men in any way...
Bi Lesbian by app1ejelly January 28, 2023
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Bi Lesbian 

This term is used to explain Mspec (Multisexual) people with an emphasis on attraction to women in one way or another. This term means different things to different people, but defintions include:
- A Bisexual Homoromantic
- A Homosexual Biromantic
- One who is attracted to women as well as feminine Non-binary people and wishes to not misgender Non-binary people by lumping them in with women.

- One who is attracted to more than one gender, but whose primary attraction is with women
A Bi Lesbian is NOT a Bi person with a preference for women.
(Note: This definition also applies to Pan Lesbians)
Person A: "What did you say your sexuality was again?"
Person B: "I consider myself a Bi Lesbian."
Person A: "That's right! Thank you for reminding me."

Bi Lesbian 

A bi lesbian typically refers to someone who prefers feminine nonbinary people, but doesn't want to misgender them. It can also refer to someone who is sexually attracted to women but will date men. In their minds, the 'lesbian' part in this refers not to girl on girl, but is referring to the femininity of the gender they are attracted to. This isn't the best way to call themselves, however. They should call themselves "bi with a female lean," because lesbian is a term that means female on female, and bisexual contradicts that.
I am a bi lesbian because I don't know how to word things properly.
Bi Lesbian by ManyManyMoney October 22, 2020

bi lesbian 

A lesbian that is attracted to more than one gender. May or may not be attracted to men, as some bisexual people define their attraction as to “two or more genders” not “attraction to men and women”.

May or may not use the SAM. There are infinite reasons someone identifies this way.

All queer identities are valid.
Cori is a bi lesbian that is attracted to men, but Sara IDs as a bi lesbian and is not.
bi lesbian by queerkyoshi February 25, 2021

Bi lesbian 

An often-controversial label most oftenly used to describe:

1) A woman who experiences homosexual and biromantic attraction or vice versa;
2) A woman who experiences attraction to member of their own gender along with non-binary genders;
3) A woman who experiences bisexual attraction with preference to members of their own gender
Person A: Are you gay or straight?
Person B: I'm a bi lesbian
Person A: Oh, that's so cool!
Bi lesbian by Cezico June 21, 2020

bi lesbian 

An abbreviation for biromantic lesbians.

A biromantic lesbian is a woman or an enby pal that feels sexual attraction to only women but experiences romantic attraction to one or more genders.
- What? Lisa has a boyfriend? I thought she was a lesbian!
+ Actually they're in an ace relationship, Lisa is a bi lesbian.
bi lesbian by Amenosora April 19, 2020