To place your own language as superior; the use of English as a choice of language
defined - idiolinguist - if you did not bother about using or attempting to use the language, for example, in a country you may be visiting because English is the most common language and everyone should know it .. indigenous cultures may have an idiolinguist approach in an attempt to reinstate a language or tongue that is at risk of extinction.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.