Definitions by Luckygirlblue
Freakfished
When you meet a potential dating partner claiming to be kinky or into certain kinks but either:
1. Their interests are just vanilla
2. They've only fantasized about engaging in the kinks they claim and when asked about them, freeze up or panic.
3. They're just a horny and it's a lie to attempt to get sex with someone they think is promiscuous.
Alternatively: kinkfished
1. Their interests are just vanilla
2. They've only fantasized about engaging in the kinks they claim and when asked about them, freeze up or panic.
3. They're just a horny and it's a lie to attempt to get sex with someone they think is promiscuous.
Alternatively: kinkfished
I had a date Friday with a guy from fetlife. He said he was a Dom but when I asked about negotiating a scene, he had no idea what aftercare or subspace was. I was completely freakfished.
Freakfished by Luckygirlblue April 4, 2026