Aileen's definitions

snuff

1. Fetish involving corpses (real or simulated) or death (necrophilia)
2. (less common) Fetish involving sexual contact with unconcious, sleeping, or heavily sedated individuals (usually women)

Tim likes his one-night stands to be as still as possible during their encounters-- maybe he's into snuff, too.

by Aileen April 21, 2003

painslut

Usually a BDSM term. Someone who enjoys physical pain and/or humiliation to great extremes; usually a submissive, but not in all cases. The word is generally applied to someone who 'can't get enough' pain and torture, similar to someone who enjoys promiscuous sex.

What I really need is a nice little painslut; all of my boyfriends have been pussies and even whined when I only whipped them.

by Aileen April 21, 2003

collar

Besides the common definition, a BDSM symbol of attachment of a submissive to a Dominant through collar made of metal, leather, or other material. Similar to a wedding band in vanilla society. Most collars are equipped with rings where a leash or restrain can be attached, like a dog's collar.

Wearing his collar to sleep was uncomfortable, but it reminded John all of the time that his Mistress loved and owned him, and he felt safe.

by Aileen April 21, 2003

Submissive

A person in BDSM who submits to a Dominant person. A submissive can be a slave and/or the bottom (the person being tied up or whipped, etc.).

Janet was a submissive in bed, but she knew how to stand up for herself when her boss tried to push her around.

by Aileen April 21, 2003

dominant

The person in BDSM who dominates or controls the wordsubmissive/word partner. A dominant can be either a full-time Mistress or Master, or simply a top (the person doing the tying up or whipping, etc.)

The best kind of dominant is confidant and mature in their street life, too.

by Aileen April 21, 2003