When someone new breaks his way into a new group of friends due to change of circumstance. This can often cause confusion in the group with a change in the ranking of the alpha males or smaller characters in the group becoming left out and replaced.
Ben: I think Fister is coming over saturday night as well.
Karl: Fister?
Ben: you know Alex.
Karl: That bloody ringbreaker! who does he think he is! breaking into the gang and acting as if nothing has happened!!
Ben: Shut up karl.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.