G0Y (G-ZERO-y) is a guy who finds men attractive, but (for whatever reason) is offended by the stigmas that currently define the 'gay community' in the public psyche. A G0Y recognizes that the "gay-male" community tends to embrace every gender-bending act, fetish & affectation; --And include those things in the general specter of the image that "gay" projects publicly. As an example look up gay pride parade on Google and you will see many examples of the associations that the word gay represents. G0YS reject those associations completely & consider it a form of prejudice against men who love men.
Behaviorally: Anal-sex is innately shunned by g0y men - as it represents, to them, the ultimate form of sexual disrespect whether it be male/male or male/female. G0y men know that anal-Sex is the mechanism for the EXPLOSIVE SPREAD of Sexually Transmitted Diseases over the globe. Other distasteful stereotypes include (but are not limited to): Effeminate behavior, extreme passivity (like cowardice) & drag. G0Y men don't call other men "girl", "bitch", "queen", etc.
G0y men refuse to be defined by the gay community. As G0y men we accept that we are born homosexual but we choose not to be gay, this doesn't make us gay-lite or homophobic. We are self identified homosexual men, how we who state we are homosexual or bisexual be homophobic? We do not hate gays we just know that the anus is not a sexual organ and wasn't meant to be used as one.
Behaviorally: Anal-sex is innately shunned by g0y men - as it represents, to them, the ultimate form of sexual disrespect whether it be male/male or male/female. G0y men know that anal-Sex is the mechanism for the EXPLOSIVE SPREAD of Sexually Transmitted Diseases over the globe. Other distasteful stereotypes include (but are not limited to): Effeminate behavior, extreme passivity (like cowardice) & drag. G0Y men don't call other men "girl", "bitch", "queen", etc.
G0y men refuse to be defined by the gay community. As G0y men we accept that we are born homosexual but we choose not to be gay, this doesn't make us gay-lite or homophobic. We are self identified homosexual men, how we who state we are homosexual or bisexual be homophobic? We do not hate gays we just know that the anus is not a sexual organ and wasn't meant to be used as one.
by randywoll February 2, 2010
Essentially, heteroflexible. A person who is predominantly heterosexual (NOT homosexual or bisexual) and attracted to and desire to engage in sexual activities and relationship only with the opposite sex--but, given the right rare circumstances, such as an extended sexual drought, a rare and temporary same-sex attraction, or a reduced lack of inhibition from sufficient tequila or other substance, will engage privately and discretely in certain and limited sexual activities focused solely on mutual physical stimulation and release with the same sex, with neither participant fulfilling or desiring to fulfill the role of the opposite sex.
Basically, this involves a gay "experience," not an overriding preference for the same sex or a gay lifestyle. For men, this generally means limited non-sexual caressing and no mouth-to-mouth kissing or (especially) anal sex. Some may find limited oral to not be objectionable. YMMV.
For women, it generally means "lipstick lesbian" activity as occurs in college or among good friends (or on a fun-filled vacation) with no strap-ons or monster double dongs, although some toys and small vibes might enter the picture as an enhancement.
Some activity of this nature can occur in a traditional heterosexual marriage or relationship when the partners decide to extend it to a threesome scenario, such as MFM or MFF. Usually this activity is of a one-time nature, with no repeat performances or long-term relationship ensuing. The participants are not likely to make the encounter public, as it is not an activity they generally seek out.
Gay guys and gals may not care much for a g0y person just dabbling, or may take it as an insult that the g0y dabblers might be homophobic or judgmental, or look down on people that practice full penetration, but it is not the case. Why would they fear or judge an activity they have engaged in? Bottome line, the g0ys just don't fit the profile of being gay. It is similar to a gay fem gal that only likes other gay fem types, not the Butch--it's nothing person, it's just not what appeals to them, period.
Basically, this involves a gay "experience," not an overriding preference for the same sex or a gay lifestyle. For men, this generally means limited non-sexual caressing and no mouth-to-mouth kissing or (especially) anal sex. Some may find limited oral to not be objectionable. YMMV.
For women, it generally means "lipstick lesbian" activity as occurs in college or among good friends (or on a fun-filled vacation) with no strap-ons or monster double dongs, although some toys and small vibes might enter the picture as an enhancement.
Some activity of this nature can occur in a traditional heterosexual marriage or relationship when the partners decide to extend it to a threesome scenario, such as MFM or MFF. Usually this activity is of a one-time nature, with no repeat performances or long-term relationship ensuing. The participants are not likely to make the encounter public, as it is not an activity they generally seek out.
Gay guys and gals may not care much for a g0y person just dabbling, or may take it as an insult that the g0y dabblers might be homophobic or judgmental, or look down on people that practice full penetration, but it is not the case. Why would they fear or judge an activity they have engaged in? Bottome line, the g0ys just don't fit the profile of being gay. It is similar to a gay fem gal that only likes other gay fem types, not the Butch--it's nothing person, it's just not what appeals to them, period.
Most guys are not gay or even bisexual, but a lot of them might occasionally be g0y! I guess you can call me g0y, because I'll take a handjob anywhere I can get it, even if I have to reciprocate (it might be a fun challenge)!
by heteroflexcouple October 26, 2008
G0YS (Spelled with a ZER0) are guys who find men physically & emotionally attractive, but (for whatever reason) are offended with the stigmas that currently define the 'gay community' in the public psyche. G0YS recognize that the "gay-male" community tends to embrace every gender-bending act, fetish & affectation; --And include those things in the general specter of the image that "gay" projects publicly. The easiest to observe example is the commonly used acronym "GLIT" (sometimes "GLIB") meaning Gay, Lesbian, Intersexed, Transgendered (or BiSexual). The fact that "GAY" is grouped with "Intersexed & Transgendered" is evidence to our primary point showing what the term "GAY" has morphed into. G0YS reject those associations completely & consider it a form of prejudice against men who love men.
Behaviorally: Anal-sex is innately shunned by g0ys - as it represents the ultimate form of sexual disrespect whether male/male or male/female. Other distasteful stereotypes include (but are not limited to): Effeminate behavior, extreme passivity (like cowardice) & drag. G0YS don't call other men "girl", "bitch", "queen", etc. You probably get the idea.
G0YS also reject (due to well developed theology), the lax & lazy prejudices that have arisen in conservative fundamentalist circles against all same-gender sexuality. In Christian circles, this travesty has arisen due to the extremely sloppy exegesis (& outfight fraud) of (6) verses of Scripture, w. a total failure to rightfully divide the Word. This becomes quite apparent when the theme of the New Testament is held up as a standard, & these anti same-gender teachings are examined in light of that theme. Very briefly, Romans chapter (1) is a scathing commentary exposing temple prostitution & Anal-sex (Women w. men, & men w. men; -- N0T what is called 'homo-sex'). This is made very clear by other writings of Saul/Paul himself, & a warning from Peter about those who would misinterpret Paul's writings. Paul writes that those who did these things received within themselves the due penalty for their perverse behavior - & that penalty was death. Likewise, G0YS point out that Anal-Sex is the mechanism for the EXPLOSIVE SPREAD of Sexually Transmitted Diseases over the globe - many deadly. The anus is not a sexual organ (genital) & treating it as such violates Moses' command "Not to bear false witness". Scripture teaches that one of the very foundations of the faith involves "repentance from acts that lead to death". G0YS believe that changing the meaning of the Romans (1) from being against anal-sex, to a focus on (& against) 'homo-sex', -simultaneously adds & deletes from the canon of Scripture; & carries the ultimate penalty for perverting the gospel.
Behaviorally: Anal-sex is innately shunned by g0ys - as it represents the ultimate form of sexual disrespect whether male/male or male/female. Other distasteful stereotypes include (but are not limited to): Effeminate behavior, extreme passivity (like cowardice) & drag. G0YS don't call other men "girl", "bitch", "queen", etc. You probably get the idea.
G0YS also reject (due to well developed theology), the lax & lazy prejudices that have arisen in conservative fundamentalist circles against all same-gender sexuality. In Christian circles, this travesty has arisen due to the extremely sloppy exegesis (& outfight fraud) of (6) verses of Scripture, w. a total failure to rightfully divide the Word. This becomes quite apparent when the theme of the New Testament is held up as a standard, & these anti same-gender teachings are examined in light of that theme. Very briefly, Romans chapter (1) is a scathing commentary exposing temple prostitution & Anal-sex (Women w. men, & men w. men; -- N0T what is called 'homo-sex'). This is made very clear by other writings of Saul/Paul himself, & a warning from Peter about those who would misinterpret Paul's writings. Paul writes that those who did these things received within themselves the due penalty for their perverse behavior - & that penalty was death. Likewise, G0YS point out that Anal-Sex is the mechanism for the EXPLOSIVE SPREAD of Sexually Transmitted Diseases over the globe - many deadly. The anus is not a sexual organ (genital) & treating it as such violates Moses' command "Not to bear false witness". Scripture teaches that one of the very foundations of the faith involves "repentance from acts that lead to death". G0YS believe that changing the meaning of the Romans (1) from being against anal-sex, to a focus on (& against) 'homo-sex', -simultaneously adds & deletes from the canon of Scripture; & carries the ultimate penalty for perverting the gospel.
Men who like other men but are not gay.
Those body builders are very masculine but they seem to like only men, I wonder if they are g0ys?
Those body builders are very masculine but they seem to like only men, I wonder if they are g0ys?
by Randywoll September 30, 2006
Guys who happen to like other guys but don't relate to the term "gay". Describes 2 out of every 3 guys. Guys who reject gay stigmas, stereotypes and certain dangerous and offensive behaviors.
by Ryan ReBoRn January 4, 2009
A G0y is a homosexual man who does not practice anal sex. G0ys consider anal sex indecent whether it be between man and woman or man and man.
Ancient Greeks were mostly G0ys since anal sex was prohibited (and illegal) but all other displays of affection between men were considered normal. Temple prostitutes were labelled perverts because they engaged in anal sex. Thus, a G0Y (Spelled with a ZER0), will engage in all forms of spiritual and physical intimacy with other men except anal sex.
by Peter Blakefield July 17, 2006