In the context of a "sane", "
well-boundaried"
BDSM-type
relationship, this kink involves fucking someone in doggystyle position whilst there head is in the toilet. In reality, this is probably almost never safe: the risks of accidentally drowning or concussion are high. For it to be tried, from a psychological perspective, you would have to introduce it in less threatening forms: a bucket of
water with the head turned to the side to practice breathing while partially submerged (just like actual swimmers do); and only for
short 10ish second increments so they don'
t panic that you are going to kill them. :( Then for sanitary reasons, you would have to have an entire bathroom dedicated to this kink with a
fresh toilet that no one ever uses to piss or shit. Then when you finally have someone used to the breathing pattern and the 10-second increments, you would transition when they are comfortable to the toilet (with plenty of padding for the knees and something to hold onto that isn'
t the slippery toilet. Finally, you would never bring the toilet seat down on their heads while they are doing it; better to remove it entirely. You might engage in other taboo fetishes involving piss etc. But all of this would have to be in the context of a fully consensual
relationship or else monitored by an intimacy coordinator that both parties have vetted carefully.
