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1.
v. - to push buttons

1. To deliberately irritate
2. To intentionally provoke another without reason
3. To wear away at the patience of someone until that person wants to
slap you
4. To capitalize on the emotional vulnerabilities of another
example: "Don't worry, chocolate doesn't make you fat," Mike said to
his slender but weight-conscious girlfriend.