The more "male" dominante female in a lesbian marriage.
When Ellen and Portia got married, Ellen was definitely the lesband.
by Platinumtraveler September 06, 2008
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a lesbians wife
when Lisa married Angie, she became her lesband
by master gwito January 15, 2010
A thick headband usually worn by lesbians
Kendra is rockin that lesband today!
by SupernaturallyUnstable January 21, 2015