A type of sex policing based on the idea that a lesbian- identified person is of a higher ranking if they've never had sexual contact with a "man". This reinforces the oppressive idea that a person must have been born with a biological penis in order to be a man, and discriminates against FtM (Female to Male) Transgendered people. It also reinforces the transphobic thought that a person who was born with a biological penis cannot legitimately be considered a womyn (and discriminates against MtF- Male to Female- individuals.) Sex Policing like this is dangerous to our communities because it supports destructive sexist ideals, and encourages the creation of rules and regulations about sexuality & gender rather than encouraging to challenge & break those rules.
"Stacey's a gold star cuz she's never fucked a boy."

"Oh, you're a gold star dyke, too? Let's ride off into the rainbow sunset together on a unicorn made of misogynist shit!"
by trannyfagwitchfucker! March 28, 2011
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Person who only has had anal sex. Can be male or female.
He's a real gold star cornholer, watch him pull out a bottle of vaseline.
by rightist June 29, 2019
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A mother who became pregnant on her very first time having sex. Marital, obviously.
Gold Star Moms are very responsible guardians of their vaginas, and birth the healthiest babies. They are the antithesis of slutty single moms.

The cackling hens at the PTA meeting had no choice but to shutup and respect the authority of the Gold Star Mom.
by TheGoyWonder August 5, 2016
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A lesbian who is disgusted by any a bi girl who would date and/or have sex with a man
Bi girl: oh that guys cute
Gold star lesbian: Ew you like guys? That's disgusting
by Ale.iex June 26, 2019
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A bisexual who has never had sex with the opposite gender (i.e bisexual man never had sex with a woman and vice-versa).
I'm a bisexual male, but I've never slept with a woman, so right now I'm a gold star bisexual.
by Attracted to both genders December 3, 2013
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A gay man who has never had sex with a woman and was a c-section baby. Never came out, never came in
I am a double gold star gay. I have never had sex with a woman and I was a c-section baby. Many gays claim to be gold star gays by never having sex with a woman, however I have never been in or out.
by Jeffrey Mack May 1, 2008
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In case you don’t know, a gold star lesbian is a lesbian who does not discriminate against other wlw
by smoltresbien March 11, 2020
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