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1.
A gay person who has never had sex with the opposite gender

Props to Corey Johnson of Sirius Satellite Radio's OutQ stream
Corey's never done it with a chick so he's gold star gay.
by Anonymous October 26, 2003
 
2.
A gay man who has never slept with a woman, even just to see how it feels. Originally stated on Rick and Steve.
Jack: Did you hear about Tom?

Elise: Yeah he's never slept with a woman, he's deffinately a gold star gay.
by Lady In The... August 20, 2009
 
3.
a gay person who has never been with a girl or has never thought of being with a girl
gold-star gay
Ryan said I'm gay. I'm gold star gay. but my brother is double golden star gay.
by Goldie gay June 29, 2009