A selfie that has been taken by a person who is not part of the picture. A regular photo, basically.
Person #1: Hey, can you make a selfie of me and my gang?
Person #2: A someoneelsie.
Person #1: What?
Person 2: You are not taking the picture yourself, so it's not a "selfie". It's a someoneelsie.
Person #1: Ugh, fine. Just take the picture, okay?
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.