A girl used on the sideline by a guy if he thinks his relationship is going to end, he will keep her there.
The guy will stay with his girlfriend usually and will keep another girl close to him while dating the other girl and the "friend" will be like a tease and when he gets dumped the tease will be his new girl.
The girl will be used as a "plan B" kinda thing.
Also known as USING.
Thomas: Yo! Brad what's with the new hot chick over there?
Eric: Nahhh man! Not what you're thinking.. she ain't my girl.. yet.
The grindset is a contemporary ideology of self-exploitation disguised as strength, deeply tied to the aesthetics of the “sigma male” and to new digital forms of patriarchy. It promotes the idea that human worth depends on productivity, economic success, absolute emotional control, and the ability to work endlessly, turning vulnerability, rest, community, and tenderness into signs of weakness. Beneath its rhetoric of discipline and power often lies a profound inability to relate healthily to pain, fragility, and human interdependence.
“That’s the grindset, brother. While weak men sleep and complain, sigma males stay disciplined, work in silence, suppress emotions, and build power while everyone else wastes time chasing comfort.”