a 1000000% valid gender identity where you don’t quite fit in with males or females. non binaries can use any pronouns but one of the most common pronouns used by non binaries is they/them
cishet: aww you’re the prettiest girl i’ve ever seen!
gender non binary: actually, i don’t classify as a girl
cishet: you’re the most handsome boy i’ve ever seen??
gender non binary: no, actually, i’m non binary and my pronouns are they/them
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.