a 1000000% valid gender identity where you don’t quite fit in with males or females. non binaries can use any pronouns but one of the most common pronouns used by non binaries is they/them
cishet: aww you’re the prettiest girl i’ve ever seen!
gender non binary: actually, i don’t classify as a girl
cishet: you’re the most handsome boy i’ve ever seen??
gender non binary: no, actually, i’m non binary and my pronouns are they/them
Fogey/fogy /fougi/ sl. (early 18C+, orig. Scot) old-fashioned, stuck-in-the mud.
Person with old fashioned ideas which he is unwilling to change: Come to the disco and stop being such an old fogey!
You think me an old fogeyand an old tory, his thoughtful voice said. I saw three generations since O’Connel’s time. I remember the famine. Do you know that the orange lodges agitated for repeal of the union twenty years before O’Connel did or before the prelates of your communion denounced him as a demagogue? You fenians forget some things. (James Joyce, Ulysses. Penguin Books,1992. p. 38)