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Cakegender 

When you hit your head so hard you have a mental illness and like having sex with cake because you can't think like a normal straight person.
Did you see what happened to Bill he turned into a Cakegender after being hit on the head by all those LGBTQ+ supporters good thing someone put a straitjacket on him.
Cakegender by Doge Corp January 8, 2023

cakegender 

Cakegender is a gastrogender that is related to cake, and is soft and fluffy like cake. It can also be sweet or warm. Cakegender can also come in different "flavors" which could change how the gender feels. You could also feel as your gender tastes like cake. One who is cakegender may also feel their gender, or "flavors", are layered, similar to layered cake.
I identify with the gender, cakegender. I feel as if my gender feels light and fluffy, like a cake.
cakegender by ☆ cancel ! September 24, 2021

Cassgender 

Someone who feels gender is not an important part of their identity. This doesn't mean they don't have a gender, it just means they do not see it as important. Most cassgender people are comfortable with any pronouns, adjectives, etc. But this isn't always the case
Person A: I'm cassgender

Person B: what does that mean?

Person A: I don't really care about my gender

Cassgender 

A gender where one doesn't care about gender, they feel it is unimportant or unneeded
Im cassgender, so I dont care what you call me.
Cassgender by Öøf.05 December 28, 2018

cutegender 

Cutegender, or gendercute, is literally anything you define as "cute."
Person a: is that a girl or a boy?
Person b: oh, they go by they/them pronouns, they're cutegender.
PA: ohh, so if you're cutegender, you have to go by they/them?
PB: no, but that was their choice.
cutegender by Mcrqueen004 July 2, 2017
Catgender is a xenogender related to cats. While it is usually used by neurodivergent people who use xenogenders to better understand their identity (not all neurodivergent people struggle with that though!), neurotypical people can use it too.

Someone who is cat gender will usually feel a really strong connection to cats. Most Catgender people DO NOT identify as cats.

However, it can be used by cat therians and other non-human identities, along with people who experience delusions of being a cat.

Some pronouns that Catgender people use can be/are: Nya/nyan/nyans/nyans/nyanself, mew/mew/mews/mews/mewself, meow/meow/meows/meows/meowself, cat/cat/cats/cats/catself, purr/purr/purrs/purrs/purrself.

However, not every Catgender person will use these pronouns, and not every Catgender person will use all of them.
Person A: Hey, I have something to tell you.

Person B: Oh? What is it?

Person A: I'm Catgender and I use Nya/nyanself pronouns now, along with (insert other pronouns)

Person B: Dude what? You can't be a cat.

Person A: I don't identify as a cat, this is a common misconception of Catgender. I just feel as really strong connection to cats and feel as though that connection influences my gender identity.

Person B: Oh I get it now, I am sorry for assuming (Name). I'm glad you thought I was a safe person to come out too :)
Catgender by Zephyrnotfoundwastaken October 17, 2022
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trucker's tan 

A sunburn or suntan focused on the left arm. It is caused by the left side of the body being the only half that gets exposed to sunlight while driving. Presumably, it would be located on the right side of the body in countries where they drive on the left side of the road.
I had a trucker's tan after driving for 10 straight hours on a sunny day.
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The phenomenon where adults salivate at children's toys
Every time I walk into the toy aisle, I catch myself kidulting over the latest action figures and LEGO sets!
kidulting by Emotional Cruiser October 12, 2025
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British slang for a scientist or technical expert, esp . when the speaker is not certain of the expert’s specific field of study. Not necessarily derogatory, but typically used by persons without a technical background. In the US, the equivalent would be “egghead”, “squint”, or “geek.”

Origin of the word is unknown. Started sometime in World War 2. Given the typical evolution of British slang, could easily have started because what these experts did was confusing or “baffling” to the common person.
According to the boffins downstairs, the murderer used a serrated blade.
Boffin by Agnon February 11, 2023
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Pee Calculus

When you have to pee in a movie but don’t want to miss anything, and must do the following mental equation: will the amount I have to pee cause enough discomfort to diminish my attention capacity for the remainder of the movie to an extent which is greater than the amount of the movie I would miss by making a mad dash to the restroom.
I saw Satantango last night, wonderful film but by the 5th hour I had to start doing pee calculus.
Pee Calculus by anorlondo October 1, 2026
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