kink shame

To kink shame is to disrespect or devalue a person for his or her particular kink or fetish.

To kink shame someone is to put them down for having a kink you disapprove of or can't relate to, for ex.:

"Eww! You like fat chicks?" to a guy who is into BBW (big beautiful women).

or "I can't believe you let a man boss you around!" to a submissive woman in a D/s relationship

or "Don't you have any self respect?" to a masochist into BDSM.

by lingolinda September 29, 2014

kink shame

To throw shade at a sexuality or kink

"I hear she likes to bang dogs."
"Well what you kink shaming her for? You fuck little kids and we don't kink shame you

by Buddy Beitans August 9, 2017

Kink-shame

kink-shame; Verb; To shame another's kinky, saucy or sexual activities, but only such activities that are generally considered unique to an individual or different to the norm.

Person 1: Did u hear Nathan likes to shove Bibles up Terry's ass?! That's so weird!
Person 2: Don't Kink-shame him! he's allowed to do whatever, holy cow.

by Origae6 September 3, 2017

Kink-shamer

kink-shamer is a person who disrespects or devalue someone's sexual preferences or fetish

1: You are a fucking kink-shamer!
2:Why?
1: You've told Jenny that it is not okay to fuck niggas! You are a fucking kink-shamer!

by Maddie 1998 January 23, 2024

Kinkshaming

When someone or something Judges someone else’s kink/fetish.

Person 1: I have a daddy kink
Person 2: That’s disgusting

Person 1: Are you kinkshaming me?
Person 2: Kinkshaming is my kink.

by BiG DiCk EnErGy July 28, 2018

kinkshaming

When someone shames a fetish/kink

When I told Jessica about my chin fetish, she started kinkshaming me

by totallynotanerd_jr March 21, 2016

kinkshaming

Kink shaming is used to when a person is degrading or speaking negatively of someone's kink interest.

Person 1: I'm into being called daddy

Person 2: That's it, I'm kinkshaming

example 2

Person 1: Man, vore is so gross
person 2: Don't kinkshame

by EmieChii April 23, 2016