femme queen Share definition Flag A transgender woman who is taking hormones and possibly planning to have surgery. RuPaul is a Drag Queen hunny, not a Femme Queen. If Ru got on 'mones and had surge, then she would be a femme queen femme queen by Lola Beckham July 7, 2010 0 0 Get merch Get the femme queen mug. Buy Now — $32.95 See more merch