When you are at a club, bar or other place to meet a woman, and you buy her an entire bank accouts worth of drinks and other things to get with her, and she still doesn't go home with you.
Guy 1 "Dude did you get with that honey last night?"
Guy 2 "No man and I am out $50 bucks becuase of her appletinis, she was just a fee-male"
Nickname given to bales of marijuana thrown overboard or out of airplanes. Origin is reportedly from members of the US Coast Guard in the area of Southern Florida.