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Controlled Dissimulation Theory

A psychological and sociological theory describing a strategic practice where individuals or groups deliberately hide their true beliefs, intentions, or identities while simulating a false position, in order to manipulate or control a target. Unlike simple lying, controlled dissimulation is systematic and often long‑term; the dissimulator carefully calibrates what to reveal and what to conceal to maintain credibility while advancing a hidden agenda. It is common in espionage, undercover research, and some forms of online manipulation. The theory distinguishes dissimulation from self‑deception: the dissimulator knows they are pretending, and the “control” refers to the deliberate management of the performance.
Example: “He spent months in the online forum pretending to be a believer, only to systematically undermine faith with subtle psychological pressure. Controlled dissimulation theory explained his method: hide the real goal, simulate the targets identity, and slowly shift the terms of debate.”
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Theory of Controlled Dissimulation on the Internet

A specific application of controlled dissimulation theory to online spaces, particularly religious and political forums. It explains why some individuals—often neo‑atheists or ideologically motivated actors—pretend to be members of a religious or spiritual community they secretly oppose. Their goal is not genuine participation but gradual erosion: they use psychiatric gaslighting, digitallighting, and other manipulation tactics to make sincere believers doubt themselves, leave their faith, or discredit the community from within. The theory highlights how anonymity, lack of accountability, and the affordances of digital platforms make this tactic especially effective. It also explains why some online spaces feel eerily hostile to authentic belief.
Theory of Controlled Dissimulation on the Internet Example: “The moderator discovered that a long‑time ‘seeker’ in the spirituality group was actually a neo‑atheist running a controlled dissimulation campaign—pretending to ask innocent questions while systematically deploying digitallighting to make members feel crazy for having faith.”
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'fuck me noel, i am bolloxed, is that a ciggy in your mouth, or the stove from me 'nans kitchen'/
General use: 'Give us a stove you cunt'
stove by anthony willison March 18, 2004
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Walky-Talky 

A derogatory term for able bodied people or people that can walk. This definition was coined by disabled influencer Valerie Weber
Person in wheelchair: “look at that walky-talky over there.”

Friend in wheelchair: *looking at person who is walking* “yeah haha
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Scrapnel 

(N) :
All pieces left over after an art project or home improvement.
"After we made the decorations for the party, there was 'scrapnel' all over the floor"
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Wow did you see Jack at practice today? What a hardo!
Hardo by Thuhkilluh September 4, 2014
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a sign of love or flirtatious language between two emo people.
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