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An individual that patiently and methodically trains, prepares and/or conditions someone, usually over a long period of time, for butt stuff aka anal sex and anal play. Also used to refer to a person who deeply enjoys butt stuff and the process of building trust with a sexual partner, wearing down their rectal limits and boundaries.
I’m pretty sure Carl is a butt stuff groomer. He’s always talking about anal sex and when we’re fucking he tries to stick his finger in my bum.

After 5 years of summer camps, I finally gave in to the counselor who was a butt stuff groomer. He finally pinned me in the outhouse.
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by Dixon Yaface June 24, 2019
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