It is what it is

Acceptance of the inevitable and what you have no control over.

"My wife is suing me for divorce."
"Well, it is what it is."

by wordlady1 March 02, 2018

it is what it is

the best way for someone to show that they are drained mentally emotionally and physically

friend: are you okay?

y/n: it is what it is

by big throwa November 04, 2023

It is what it is

A covert way of telling someone you’re in love with them

I know we haven’t dated long, but I think it is what it is.

by The real Joe Rogan May 22, 2020

It is what it is

I’m in love with you

When a man wants to tell a woman he is in love with her but can’t

“I know we’ve only been dating a short time but it is what it is.”

by The real Joe Rogan May 22, 2020

It is what it is

I'm in so much pain rn

"The sun is going to explode in a peta billion fart years from now...it is what it is."

by Sbreg August 11, 2022

It is what it is

Of course it's an old time saying and such, but these days, at least in SD, it's stalker language. For "this is what it will always be like" &"you can't do anything about it" and a way for them to justify their actions by just saying "that's just life!" Like they don't have a choice but to stalk people. Anyway, I dont know if its universal but maybe it can help.

"it is what it is"
"no, it most definitely is not"

by luserbebe October 20, 2021

it is what it is

the phrase you use when you try to accept the fact that your life is a piece of shit

-"im sorry you lost"

- "it is what it is"

by idkman112233848495959 December 31, 2023