trauma shaming

When someone who has been affected mentally or psychologically by a trauma, or even a bad upbringing, is criticized for the behavior they display as a result of the trauma, with those criticizing seemingly forgetting, or not knowing the reason behind this behavior. Some may continue to criticize the person with the trauma even when explained the reason, claiming that the trauma doesn't "justify" their behavior. In the case of fictional characters, expect one to call a trauma-stricken character "annoying" for lashing out.

Commenter: "Ugh, just watching Degrassi Junior High right now and Spike is so rude towards Shane! Like why is she like that towards that poor boy?"
Another commenter: "Dude, she literally has an absent father and she got pregnant at 14. Stop trauma shaming.".

by Spike from Degrassi November 8, 2021

Grohl Shaming

The act of doing something so despicable that the nicest guy in the music industry is disgusted by you.

"Dude the baby on the Nirvana album is suing the band for child porn!"
"After all that money he made? He's totally grohl shaming himself"

by Jacky Daytona August 25, 2021

Shame Tornado

A Shame Tornado is the feeling of depression that results from a massive drinking excursion. Does not necessarily mean you did anything shameful per say but if you did you probably would not remember. Shame tornadoes are more prevalent when you blackout ( or Time Travel) for any period of time. The older you get the more at risk you are for one of these episodes. They tend to last 24-48 hours after the drinking episode but have in some cases been documented to last as long as 8 days.

Two days after St. Patty's Day and I'm in the eye of a Shame Tornado.

by P. Sharp March 21, 2007

Shame Nancy

When two people are having sex in the shower and one person (without permission from the other) puts their finger in the other's ass to be kinky resulting in that person unintentionally shitting themselves.

"I had shower sex once but it ended in a Shame Nancy, so that kind of turned me off of it"

by Shame Nancy May 31, 2014

Honk of shame

A short, friendly double-honk one safe driver gives another driver seen texting while driving.

If I ever see someone texting while driving, I give them the honk of shame to encourage them to focus on the road before they cause an accident.

by Stokedville May 26, 2016

bag shame

Feeling of being shamed for not having/using reusable bags.

Clerk:"Did you bring your own bags?"
Me: "no"

I walked away with brown bags / plastic bags feeling "bag shamed"

by Tdall August 18, 2017

Shame-jerking

Masterbating out of shame

I was shame-jerking in gym showers trying to clear my mind of what happened last night

by hellhammer February 2, 2015