everytime something bad happens to you, there's a toxic friend that will bring up stuff that's happened to them to draw attention. They normally act like their life is 10x more terrible than yours even if it isn't
"Yeah..my grandma passed away last night.."
"Well try growing up without one! *stares intensely at table* you think its bad your grandma died..."
(internally) STFU you stupid retard nobody cares if you're the "victim"
"Well try growing up without one! *stares intensely at table* you think its bad your grandma died..."
(internally) STFU you stupid retard nobody cares if you're the "victim"
by bangtantv March 3, 2020

A victim of kidney failure.
by Firestar January 19, 2019

Nooo I'm not blaming the victims. I'm just not blaming the perpetrators. Which is what you want me to do and BECAUSE I'M NOT... You're using that as justification for your antipathy towards me.
Hym "Noooo... You want a thing that is a 'parent problem' to be an everybody problem but if I were to apply that to literally anything else (say, me not getting my dick sucked) you would reject it. It's funny too because I couldn't be any more ambivalent about it and I've done more to stop it than any of you EVER COULD. (👈 That one there is for The Homelander) So, no. No victim blaming here.
by Hym Iam March 22, 2023

any disorder, trait, characteristic, attribute, feature, or other detail invoked with the intention of portraying one as a victim in an attempt to render them irreproachable
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by Herobattler June 12, 2022
