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Auntie Tom

On 4chan's /lgbt/ board (/tttt/), a pejorative for trans people (particularly trans women) who attempt to win the support/approval of transphobes by catering to them. These people often denigrate themselves to fall just outside transphobes' claims as to why trans people are bad (thus allowing themselves to be "one of the good ones") while looking down on other trans people (the "bad ones").

One notable Auntie Tom is Blaire White. Like many transmedicalists and conservatives, she ridicules non-binary people, has said to trans women "you are not trans", is "against" transgender children being allowed to transition in any form (medical or social), and that even acknowledging a child's transness is "grooming". (Blaire voted for Trump in 2016, 2020, and 2024.)

Like Uncle Toms, Auntie Toms fail to realize they are only "one of the good ones" as a matter of convenience. As a historic parallel, consider the Association of German National Jews, a Jewish organization that supported Adolf Hitler because they believed the Nazis would only wipe out the "racially inferior" Eastern European Jews right up until they were all sent to the concentration camps.

In much the same way, Auntie Toms are also tokens, tokens which will eventually be spent. When they get upset over transphobic laws stripping their rights, conservatives shrug and move on because they don't actually care about the "good ones". And if trans death camps ever get built, Auntie Toms will also meet their demise.
Calm down Auntie Tom, the RNC isn't for another month.

Typical Auntie Tom behavior.

Auntie Tom says Auntie Tom shit.
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auntie slayer

A Deadly uncle who slays all the aunties.
He also wears his battle marks on his neck in the shape of the rez he was at!!!!
Auntie slayer Uncle went to snaps and slayed 2 different aunties in one night
by Auntieslayer420 January 22, 2024
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Auntie jo

A woman you’ve never heard of before, an odd person who you’re convinced doesn’t even exist.
“Hey have you seen that new girl at our school?”
“Yes, auntie jo is so strange..”
by The waffy monster December 17, 2023
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Aunty werey

An elderly lady that does things irrational
Don't to aunty Moni's house aunty werey ni
by Thomas691 July 26, 2022
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Sima Aunty from Mumbai

Sima Aunty is a matchmaker in Mumbai, India. She acted in Netflix's Indian Matchmaking show.

- She often expresses her opinions that some matches would not work.

- She states that 100 percent of anything can be found in your partner of what you expect. "Only 60-70%" is in her words, what you can get in your partner.

- She infamously uses the suffix "from Mumbai" everywhere she introduces herself. So, the audience satirically uses the "from Mumbai" suffix as such whenever they refer to her.
Friend: OMG! Nick Jonas and Priyanka are a perfect match.
Me: Ofcourse they are, but Sima Aunty from Mumbai would say they are not a good match because of age difference.
Friend: Imagine you get to meet Sima from Mumbai, how would you greet her?
Me: I would bend only 60-70% to touch the feet, not 100%.
Friend: and when she would say "I am Sima, from Mumbai", how would you react?
Me: I would say "I am Hemish, from Earth."
by he.mi.sh October 17, 2022
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