ghost phase

a completely natural, albeit uncomfortable, phase of courtship where a girl who had initially shown interest in a guy during the early talking stages, confusingly and often quite suddenly ghosts him. During this phase, which can last anywhere from a week to a couple of months, there is no communication by the girl to the guy in order for her to determine his level of interest. Very frequently she will ignore any attempts at communication, so much so that should the pair pass by each other, for instance in the dining hall of a college campus, she will offer an apathetic head nod or cold formal “hello”, and leave the guy scratching his head wondering where the hell he went wrong. The guy has 3 options from this point: 1) if he is very interested in her, he may continue pursuing her through this phase, and wait until the phase is over and she resumes normal communication, 2) he can attempt to turn the tables against her and ghost her (thus running the risk of the courtship fizzling out), or 3) he can decide to end his pursuit and move onto the next girl, thus simultaneously ending the courtship and ghost phase. If he has chosen option 1 and continues his pursuit through the ghost phase, he must realize that when the ghost phase eventually terminates, he has played directly into her hands, and she will highly likely utilize his interest to her advantage throughout the later stages of the courtship, throughout the dating phase, and, in due course, during the couples’ marriage!

Mike: sighs
Adam: What's wrong Mike?
Mike: I don't know... it's nothing really... it's just that Claire used to show interest in me but I think I may have blew my chances with her because she has suddenly started ignoring me.
Adam: What happened?
Mike: Earlier this morning, we passed by each other and she just gave me this weird glance and barely acknowledged my existence. I'm confused because she seemed interested up until this point. I'm trying to trace my steps to see where I went wrong.
Adam: chuckles There's no need for that. Trust me I've been in your situation before.
Mike: What do you mean by that?
Adam: puts hand on Mike's shoulder It seems you have entered the ghost phase my friend, godspeed.

by theblackpirate July 05, 2023

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Ghost of Lane Frost

When you startle your partner during sex by introducing a freezing hand onto his/her body and they attempt to get away from you due to the freezing cold. Prepare by leaving one arm/hand outside the covers while you set the mood. Allowing it to get cold with the chilly air conditioner or fan blowing on it. Lying on your side, you enter your partner from behind doggy style. This is a relaxing beginning to set the tone of the upcoming event. When you’re ready to introduce her to the “Ghost of Lane Frost” or either of you is about to finish, you bring your freezing cold hand that has been out in the cold air, back under the covers and quickly place it on the small of her back! Now watch her buck like a world class bull because of the freezing cold hand! Try to keep your hand in place for at least 8 seconds as she tries to buck you off! If you manage to finish her also during this time, award yourself with the gold buckle in the bedroom. You’ve now introduced her to the “Ghost of Lane Frost”. Happy Bucking!

“She wasn’t ready for it, but I introduced her to the Ghost of Lane Frost! It was the best 8 seconds of my life.”
“If you finish her with the Ghost of Lane Frost, you get the Gold buckle!”
“If you manage to last more than 8 seconds, go for another 8 second round, you’re riding for Lane now!”

by Peter Panning80 April 04, 2025

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