When a black person are always bound to find themselves in a relationship with someone of the opposite race, typically a white person. It is typically uncommon for people caught in this paradox to date another black person.
Andre: Man, all my past relationship has been with White Women.
Cole: Sounds like you’re caught in the Shonda Rhimes Paradox, my friend.
Cole: Sounds like you’re caught in the Shonda Rhimes Paradox, my friend.
by BOI64 February 4, 2021

A "shonda" is a word that goes in place of another word if the user forgets what something is called. The word usually replaces the slang word "jawn", and gives it a more colorful approach.
by nuttyUNC May 4, 2024
