Any person of female
gender that that is a
good role model that did not give birth to you. This can mean in the general sense of giving
good motherly advice and/or warm, nurturing feelings ranging to actually helping to raise you with all of your physical, mental, and spiritual needs.
For example, my
best friend's mom feels like my own because she helped raise me. Therefore, 'Momma Malik' is a bonus mom to me. Another example, my
teacher is always giving good words of
wisdom, I consider her a bonus mom.