sendsexualism noun | /sɛndˈsɛkʃuəlɪzəm/ A
sexual orientation where
the thrill of erotic fulfillment comes exclusively from the act of sending money to a dominant partner—be it a findom goddess, e-boy tyrant, or AI overlord. It’s not about the nudes or the
dirty talk; it’s the dopamine hit from watching your Venmo balance plummet with every “send” button tap. Subs often describe it as “orgasms via overdraft fees,” and yeah, therapy’s optional but bankruptcy counseling isn’t. Coined in late 2025 by forward-thinking kink theorists tired of vague “paypig” labels—now it’s a full-on -ism, baby.