Essentially, it is a girl with internalized misogyny that is willing to turn against her own gender for the attention and approval of men. They ignore blatantly sexist behavior, even sometimes participating as to not seem unfunny or uncool. They also try their best to separate themselves from "other girls" because they see other girls as bad or basic compared to themselves, who are inherently special and therefore deserve male attention.
Guy: *makes sexist comment*
Girls: wow that's rude wtf
Pick me girl: lol, it's just a joke. Girls can't take jokes lololol!!! This is why I only hang out with guys, girls are too dramatic. *immediately checks to see if the male agrees with her*
Girls: wow that's rude wtf
Pick me girl: lol, it's just a joke. Girls can't take jokes lololol!!! This is why I only hang out with guys, girls are too dramatic. *immediately checks to see if the male agrees with her*
by Starquti February 10, 2021
a guy that mocks other guys for assumingly being virgin in public in order to impress girls and gain their attention
person A: a hot woman walks by on campus wow, you look nice, girl! do you perhaps want to come to my place today and have some cozy time?
person B (rival): ahahaha, virgin on my radar! bro, are you dumb?! you're way too forward, and btw she's way out of your league. how can you possibly be so naive and say something so stupid?
person C (bystander): dude, being virgin is normal. actually, you're being the pick me guy here and embarassing yourself. it ain't cool, bro. we all have our insecurities. you can impress without knocking other people down.
person B (rival): ahahaha, virgin on my radar! bro, are you dumb?! you're way too forward, and btw she's way out of your league. how can you possibly be so naive and say something so stupid?
person C (bystander): dude, being virgin is normal. actually, you're being the pick me guy here and embarassing yourself. it ain't cool, bro. we all have our insecurities. you can impress without knocking other people down.
by Assigore1312 October 11, 2021
A girl who seeks attention.
She will wait for drama to start and acting fragile/ brave.
If there's no drama, she'll make the drama.
She wants everyone to love her and think she's lovely.
She likes to make everything about her, and thinks it's all about her.
She will wait for drama to start and acting fragile/ brave.
If there's no drama, she'll make the drama.
She wants everyone to love her and think she's lovely.
She likes to make everything about her, and thinks it's all about her.
*The girl who's crying is a pick me girl*
Classmate 1: why is she crying?
Classmate 2: Someone said that her grandpa died last night and the one who's crying said it triggered her memory from her dad's death.
Classmate 1: why is she crying?
Classmate 2: Someone said that her grandpa died last night and the one who's crying said it triggered her memory from her dad's death.
by ShRo69 December 21, 2021
How to deal with nice guys
What they want
They try to say really bad things about them selfs to make people feel bad and pity them/ be nice to them
Why do they
They usually do this so they look innocent and make new friends or they use this on people they don’t nessarly like so they can manipulate them and make them look deceiving
What you should do
1. Confront them and tell them that they should stop talking down on them selfs and how it affects them
1. If one doesn’t work ask them why they talk bad abt them selfs and then change it from there
2. If none of those work just agree with what they are saying bc it will probably take them back and make them think why do they guilt trip people and they’ll either stop doing that or ask why you said that and if they ask why you say that you say well I know what your trying to do and sense you talk bad abt yourself to everyone you must be trying to get people to agree with you or something
3. If they get mad at you for confronting them just start hanging around their friends and try to stay on their minds and manifesting works too
What they want
They try to say really bad things about them selfs to make people feel bad and pity them/ be nice to them
Why do they
They usually do this so they look innocent and make new friends or they use this on people they don’t nessarly like so they can manipulate them and make them look deceiving
What you should do
1. Confront them and tell them that they should stop talking down on them selfs and how it affects them
1. If one doesn’t work ask them why they talk bad abt them selfs and then change it from there
2. If none of those work just agree with what they are saying bc it will probably take them back and make them think why do they guilt trip people and they’ll either stop doing that or ask why you said that and if they ask why you say that you say well I know what your trying to do and sense you talk bad abt yourself to everyone you must be trying to get people to agree with you or something
3. If they get mad at you for confronting them just start hanging around their friends and try to stay on their minds and manifesting works too
He is such a pick me guy!!!
by User_urban_Anonymous April 17, 2021
by Kialeigh scalise is a hoe June 08, 2021
A girl who likes to shame other girls just so she can be like “one of the boys” they also like to copy all the things a boy she likes would like. Basically a person who thinks she is special when she’s not
Exp.1
Normal girl: yeah I don’t really like gaming
Pick me girl: really I love gaming! You’re so normal and basic.
Exp.2
Guy: Girls are so annoying
Pick me girl: YEAH AM I RIGHT AHAHA. IM SO FUNNY!
Normal girl: yeah I don’t really like gaming
Pick me girl: really I love gaming! You’re so normal and basic.
Exp.2
Guy: Girls are so annoying
Pick me girl: YEAH AM I RIGHT AHAHA. IM SO FUNNY!
by Gatorade bottle July 31, 2021
A “pick me enby” is a non-binary person seeking approval of those with binary gender identities by trying to overtly distinguish themselves from other non-binary people.
They might claim their identity is more valid based on having more potential to sustain inside of a heteronormative society, listing a more “complex”, “stable” (in contrast to fluid) experience or their “perfect androgynous appearance” as a reason to be more deserving of respect. They might throw other non-binary people under the bus by calling them “cringe” or “fake”, in an attempt to shift the image of the “transtrender” further down the line to those that might be (even) more misunderstood in society.
The term “pick me enby” is derived from the more popular “pick me girl”: a girl/woman defined as trying to appeal to boys/men by bringing other girls/women down. Often times people describe the motivation of a “pick me girl” as internalized misogyny, therefore a “pick me enby” could be seen as motivated by internalized transphobia.
They might claim their identity is more valid based on having more potential to sustain inside of a heteronormative society, listing a more “complex”, “stable” (in contrast to fluid) experience or their “perfect androgynous appearance” as a reason to be more deserving of respect. They might throw other non-binary people under the bus by calling them “cringe” or “fake”, in an attempt to shift the image of the “transtrender” further down the line to those that might be (even) more misunderstood in society.
The term “pick me enby” is derived from the more popular “pick me girl”: a girl/woman defined as trying to appeal to boys/men by bringing other girls/women down. Often times people describe the motivation of a “pick me girl” as internalized misogyny, therefore a “pick me enby” could be seen as motivated by internalized transphobia.
"Jessie is a pick me enby, they started throwing others under the bus in hopes that cis people would respect them more."
by limesx39 March 15, 2022