bobby: can people tell i'm milk and sugar
johnjo: of course they can... get a girlfriend it might take them off the scent
bobby: but i don't like girls
johnjo: well get a boyfriend then
bobby: i don't dare i might get a good hiding
johnjo: well you shouldn't be milk and sugar
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.