A Real Nancy Share definition Flag A derogatory reference made to another male referencing that he is effeminate and/or gay. Son!!! Get out here and help me work on the car. But dad I am working on my needlepoint. Your a real Nancy. A Real Nancy by Eaton Holgoode February 15, 2018 0 0 Get merch Get the A Real Nancy mug. Buy Now — $32.95 See more merch