vicvip5r's definitions

Dimming

Where less attractive women resent or envy highly attractive women for receiving disproportionate male attention, and then advocate for rules, norms, standards, or restrictions (like stricter dress codes, modesty requirements, "slut-shaming," or toning down displays of beauty) to level the playing field and diminish that advantage

"Stop dimming on the women in the Olympics because they have better asses than you do"

by vicvip5r February 20, 2026

Sanctifying

Unaware self-deception where emotional envy/threat or other self serving purpose gets unconsciously reframed as a virtuous, moral, or "concerned" stance (e.g., "she should dress more modestly for her own good/respect/society," while the real driver is self-centered competition to ease personal insecurity)

He's sanctifying his fear of competition by calling the new hire 'disruptive' and 'unethical'

Stop sanctifying. Just because you think she's hotter than you and you think you can come up with rules to make her less hot doesn't mean you can.

by vicvip5r February 20, 2026